Because it’s easier to think:
That people are objects to consume.
That the grass is greener on the other side.
That what “stays in Vegas” is a legitimate motto to live by.
That we can use “love” to get sex.
That we can use sex to get “love”.
That committing to one person is unfulfilling.
That you’re strong and can handle “the heat of the moment”.
That her body is more valuable than her heart and her future.
That giving it a “test run” is a proper way to prepare for marriage.
That doing what everyone else is doing is a secure identity to depend on.
That “friends with benefits” IS NOT an escape mechanism used by guys to avoid commitment.
That pornography won’t damage present and future relationships.
That self-control is unattainable.
If you got it, use it.
If God meant for us to wait, He wouldn’t have made the urge so strong when we’re so young.
That she would be better than who you’re currently with.
That you would be better for her than who she’s currently with.
That feelings should dictate our faith.
That your worth is based on how many you’ve slept with.
That our cravings should determine our behavior.
That it’s ok to do it in your mind if you’re not doing it in a bed.
That no one waits anymore.
That our sexuality is only physical and has nothing to do with our spirituality.
That if it feels so right, it can’t be wrong.
That you really love each other.
Purity is hard
Choose Jesus. Choose Purity.
and desperately sick;
who can understand it?
1Transgression speaks to the wicked
deep in his heart;
there is no fear of God
before his eyes.
2 For he flatters himself in his own eyes
that his iniquity cannot be found out and hated.
3The words of his mouth are trouble and deceit;
he has ceased to act wisely and do good.
4Heplots trouble while on his bed;
he sets himself in a way that is not good;
he does not reject evil.